{"id":3960,"date":"2018-10-17T10:40:51","date_gmt":"2018-10-17T14:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gnhuu.org\/?p=3960"},"modified":"2018-12-02T16:54:27","modified_gmt":"2018-12-02T21:54:27","slug":"sunday-october-14-2018-a-positive-mask-for-halloween-the-handmaid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gnhuu.org\/index.php\/2018\/10\/17\/sunday-october-14-2018-a-positive-mask-for-halloween-the-handmaid\/","title":{"rendered":"Sunday, October 14, 2018, &#8220;Positive Halloween Masks for Troubled Times: The Handmaid&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(c) Doug Slagle, Minister to the Gathering at Northern Hills, All Rights Reserved<\/p>\n<p>Click here to listen to the message.\u00a0 See below to read it.<\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-3960-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/gnhuu.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181017-104806.m4a?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/gnhuu.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181017-104806.m4a\">http:\/\/gnhuu.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/20181017-104806.m4a<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> In the book of Genesis, which is the first book of the both the Christian Bible and Jewish Torah, a story is told about one of the supposed great patriarchs of ancient Israel &#8211; a man named Isaac.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He and his wife Rachel have difficulty conceiving a child and so, with his wife\u2019s approval, they purchase a handmaid, named Bilhah, to be a surrogate birth mother &#8211; and sex slave to Isaac &#8211; so the couple can have children.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Bilhah, in the story, conceives two sons by Isaac<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>&#8211; both of whom are immediately taken by Rachel as her own.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Bilhah remains a handmaid to Isaac which, in Biblical euphemisms, means she is a sex slave.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The story is shocking to modern sensibilities and, in some respects, it\u2019s unfair to judge and condemn the story since it is from a pre-modern culture.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is also hypocritical to judge the story too harshly since many of it\u2019s customs are evident in today\u2019s world..<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Women in ancient societies had little status apart from their sexual purity, fidelity to a husband, or ability to bear children and be a servant.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In essence, girls and women were valued for their bodies &#8211; objects to be sold, bought and used by men.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It was a male dominant culture in which women had no rights and were, for all intents and purposes, property themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> That status for women is, I believe, mostly still true today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In 1984, Margaret Atwood wrote a novel entitled \u201cThe Handmaid\u2019s Tale\u201d about a dystopian America that uses the story of Isaac, Rachel and the handmaid Bilhah as the foundation for its laws and government.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Due to a terrible rise of female infertility, caused by environmental pollution, a group of elite, religiously fundamentalist men stage a coup.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In Atwood\u2019s story, the coup leaders rename America as Gilead, they suspend the Constitution, send armed men into the streets to shoot protesters, and immediately pass laws stripping women of their money, their property and their ability to work except as a direct servants to men.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Gilead\u2019s government is a moralistic theocracy similar to Iran\u2019s &#8211; only Christian.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Women are rigorously controlled because the focus of society is to serve God, men and the increased birth of children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Virginal daughters from upper class families are ordered to become stay at home wives of well-off men &#8211; and caretakers of their children.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are to wear blue clothing as symbolic of their moral purity.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Since most women in Gilead are infertile, these wives collude with their husbands to enslave the few women who can still bear children.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Nevertheless, these elite women are merely adornments for their husbands &#8211; and caretakers of children they did not bear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Women of the middle class who <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b><i>can<\/i><\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> conceive are forced to become <b><i>handmaids<\/i><\/b>. They are women whose sole purpose is to serve as breeding surrogates for the elite men and their wives.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Children that the handmaids bear become children of those couples.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Handmaids wear red robes symbolizing the blood of birth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Middle class women who are infertile are forced to become prostitutes for the elite class of men.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They must wear purple clothing and spend their lives in brothels.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Women from lesser classes are forced to be cooks, maids, and servants to the elite men and their families.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They must wear striped clothing as a symbol of their prisoner-like status.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Atwood\u2019s novel focuses on the life of one handmaid named Offred &#8211; which literally means \u201cof Fred\u201d or, <i>belonging<\/i> to Fred.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>All handmaids are similarly named as \u201cof\u201d their male master\u2019s first name.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The novel has found new resonance over the last two years with the election of Donald Trump and the start of the #MeToo movement.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As much as the book is dystopian fiction, its depictions of men, and the women who collude with them, ring frighteningly similar to paternalism existing today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As in the story, too many men and women today, particularly religious fundamentalists, consider a woman\u2019s role to be either as an object for display, as a bearer of children, as a sexual object, or as a domestic servant.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If we think about it, that is mostly how the President treats women in his life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Equally as frightening for me is the ability of today\u2019s religious fundamentalists to control our current nation\u2019s laws and government much as they completely do in the fictional Gilead.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Atwood\u2019s book offers a vision of how fundamentalists could take control of the US.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Religion and false morality are used to control people and pass restrictive laws &#8211; particularly against women and others considered immoral.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For instance, in the fictional Gilead, gays and lesbians are arrested and quickly executed for being \u201cgender traitors.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Like women, homosexuals have historically been marginalized and targeted by straight men and religious zealots who, due to insecurity about themselves, cannot abide anyone who attacks the myth of religion or of male power. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> \u201cThe Handmaid\u2019s Tale\u201d is now a TV series playing on the streaming service Hulu.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is one of the most watched and talked about TV shows today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Margaret Atwood says her book, and the TV show, should be warning calls to what is happening now in the US &#8211; and how much worse it could get.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> My October message series is entitled \u201cPositive Halloween Masks\u201d and I intend for it to champion the values women offer society by suggesting positive female masks women <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b><i>and men<\/i><\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> might wear.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My message last week suggested we wear masks of ancient Roman goddesses Justitia and Prudentia.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Jusiticia represents the search for truth and how that ideal must replace a rush to judgement and the use of opinions to replace facts.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Prudentia is Justitia\u2019s goddess companion who guides her in a search for truth with common sense and virtue.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Today, I suggest the possible wearing of a Halloween mask and costume that represents a handmaid. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As a seemingly negative costume, I believe a handmaid instead represents sacrifice, courage and strength.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed, she is the ultimate sexual assault victim who heroically transcends her victimhood.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As Hillary Clinton recently opined about #MeToo women, they are courageous figures who \u201cresist, insist, persist and finally enlist.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The story of Biblical Bilhah, the story of Margaret Atwood\u2019s handmaid, and the true stories of millions of other women throughout history who have been abused and exploited by men &#8211; are all ones of quiet strength and fighting back.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I believe its time for such women &#8211; heroes all of them &#8211; to be positively celebrated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Like almost all sexual assault victims, Offred the handmaid realizes that in order to survive both mentally and physically, she must remain silent about her traumas.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And her self-imposed silence is reinforced by men who literally force Offred and other Gilead handmaids to wear leather straps across their mouths &#8211; so they cannot speak or scream.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> As surrogates whose sole purpose is to procreate, Offred and the relatively few other women who can conceive are controlled in what they can and cannot eat.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Their monthly cycles are also closely monitored so masters can assault them on the best days for conception.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>While Gilead calls such intercourse \u201csacred ceremonies,\u201d they are in truth rapes of the handmaids &#8211; all while masters\u2019 wives watch, much as the Bible implies that Rachel allowed and watched Isaac\u2019s rape of Bilhah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Offred learns to mentally erase her rape experiences.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In one harrowing scene, she is shown dreaming and thinking of another place and time, mentally oblivious to what is happening to her, all during the several minutes her master has his way with her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The attacks on handmaids in Atwood\u2019s story are also routinely done against women today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Many men still assume they have a right to use and abuse women\u2019s bodies as they wish &#8211; often in the name of supposed morality.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They seek to control women\u2019s reproductive decisions and her rights as an autonomous and fully equal person.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And such actions take a profound toll on many women.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Studies show, for instance, that the reaction of sexual assault victims is often to compartmentalize memories of their trauma. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They store them in remote parts of the brain as a way to avoid, as much as possible, reliving the assault.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Other negative effects can also be unconscious &#8211; such as irrational fears, anxiety, sleep and eating disorders, relationship problems, depression and addictions.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Many sexual assault victims, studies show, cannot recall details of their trauma unless they are remembered after intensive therapy.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Other victims, instead of mentally forgetting an attack, regularly experience vivid flashbacks of their assaults and feel once again the terror and humiliation of what happened.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> All of these conditions result from what is commonly called post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD &#8211; a dysfunctional emotional response that is widely acknowledged as a problem for combat soldiers and victims of horrific accidents.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But, as we saw with the Kavanugh hearings, women are not believed to suffer symptoms of PTSD.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Sexual assault victims are also taught by our society to think they caused, deserved or even wanted an assault.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Women\u2019s reaction is therefore to remain silent &#8211; often for many years &#8211; until an assault is too late to be charged as a crime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The result is a culture, supported by both women and men, that utterly fails to understand sexual assault, its negative effects on victims, and the well documented reasons why they frequently suppress the harassment and do not immediately report it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Only 40% of all sexual assaults are ever reported &#8211; and reasons for that are several.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Women fear that their every behavior will be scrutinized, that they will be shamed for their sexual history, or they will be labeled as mentally unbalanced, manipulative or simply as a liar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Indeed, according to a study by Stanford University, myths about false reports of sexual assault are widespread &#8211; ones like \u201cwomen cry rape when they regret having had sex,\u201d or \u201cwomen accuse wealthy and powerful men of rape in order to enrich themselves,\u201d or \u201cthere was not enough physical evidence to charge a man with rape so the woman must be lying,\u201d or, as I earlier mentioned, \u201cif a woman was truly raped, she would have immediately called the police.\u201d <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Because of these myths, ones recently repeated by Donald Trump, a women is far more likely to be believed when she is robbed than when she is sexually assaulted.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The truth is, according to Stanford\u2019s study, <b><i>only 2% of all sexual assault reports are made up <\/i><\/b>&#8211; the exact same percentage as that for all other false crime reports.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Women of the #MeToo movement, for whom I\u2019ve used the handmaid to represent, should therefore not only be believed, but also honored for the courage to share their stories &#8211; despite all of the negative repercussions that befall them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed, news reports this last week indicate that Dr. Blasey Ford and her family are still unable to return to their home because of continuing death threats against them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Meanwhile, Mr. Kavanaugh, as a member of the Supreme Court, now enjoys free federal protection for he and his family.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The Handmaid\u2019s Tale, as both a book and TV show, is resonating with many people today because the characters are depicted as strong and intelligent resisters.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are not meek and fragile.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Offred submits to the overwhelming state power against her, but she also resists &#8211; secretly conspiring against Gilead\u2019s government while she gains the confidence to confront her male master with a forthright awareness of his true position.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>She understands the implicit power female victims hold over abusive men.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Misogynists are actually very insecure.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They must constantly assert their manhood because, at their core, they\u2019re quite weak.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The women they abuse, harass and diminish, however, persevere with quiet dignity and are far more resilient.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is their truth, power and legacy that will ultimately prevail. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> In that light, Offred enjoys a close sisterhood with other handmaids.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Enslaved as they might be, the handmaids nevertheless refuse to sacrifice their humanity and compassion.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Simply by refusing to be defeated, by surviving to fight back &#8211; they exemplify the spirit of #MeToo women today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Strong in courage and coming together to validate and support one another, women are no longer silent victims.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are instead victors.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> And it\u2019s that paradoxical truth that tells me the #MeToo movement will not be easily stopped.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Men have extraordinary power, but they are no match against women with truth on their side.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>To support them, I encourage a continued celebration of all who stand against abuse, who come out of the shadows to share their assault stories, and who represent handmaids across the millennia &#8211; women like the Biblical Bilhah who was exploited by one of the supposed great men of the Bible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Try as men like Donald Trump might &#8211; to control, humiliate and disbelieve handmaids, their efforts will fail.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The era of cultural, economic and political control by white, straight men will soon end.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I believe that is a primary reason why some white straight men are so angry and fight so hard against many social justice causes.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>An age of dawning equality for both genders, and all people, is now emerging.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>This new age may suffer occasional setbacks as it is birthed, but it will nevertheless have the final victory.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And for this old, white, gay man, that time will gladly come.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(c) Doug Slagle, Minister to the Gathering at Northern Hills, All Rights Reserved Click here to listen to the message.\u00a0 See below to read it. &nbsp; 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