{"id":3404,"date":"2017-04-10T09:23:28","date_gmt":"2017-04-10T13:23:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/gnhuu.org\/?p=3404"},"modified":"2017-04-19T09:25:22","modified_gmt":"2017-04-19T13:25:22","slug":"sunday-april-9-2016-rituals-that-define-us-for-meaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gnhuu.org\/index.php\/2017\/04\/10\/sunday-april-9-2016-rituals-that-define-us-for-meaning\/","title":{"rendered":"Sunday, April 9, 2016, &#8220;Rituals That Define Us: For Meaning!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(c) Doug Slagle, Minister to the Gathering at Northern Hills, All Rights Reserved<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> On October 31,1517 Martin Luther, a professor of theology at the University of Wittenberg in Germany, published his ninety-five theses of criticism against the Catholic Church.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Protestantism, literally meaning \u201cthose who protest\u201d was born.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Luther was primarily against widespread Church sales of indulgences to finance the building of St. Peter\u2019s Basilica in Rome.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>An indulgence was a <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>purchased<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> decree, ritually offered by a Priest, Bishop or Pope, that declared a deceased person should immediately enter heaven. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A popular phrase at the time said that a gold coin no sooner rang in the bottom of an indulgence collection plate, then the soul for whom it was given would enter paradise.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Luther was rightly horrified at the practice not just because it exploited fears of the illiterate and poor, but because it had no basis in anything Jesus taught.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed, much of Jesus\u2019 teachings were <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>against<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> such greed and exploitation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Fundamentally, however, Luther was also against the Church\u2019s use of rituals as the way to gain favor with God.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>His understanding of verses in the Bible was that a person\u2019s faith was the only determining factor for salvation and heaven.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Whether or not someone is baptized, regularly confesses sin, regularly partakes of communion, regularly tithes money to the church, or is given last rites before dying &#8211; these are rituals that have symbolic value, but are not essential to being a good and faithful person.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Church, Luther said, had turned rituals into man-made requirements while draining them of their purpose to initiate reflection, humility and charity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> For me, Martin Luther is one of the great figures in history.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He not only fundamentally changed the understanding of God, but his protests changed prevailing thoughts about individualism, human rights, and the ability of people to think on their own &#8211; without relying on the Church to do that for them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Age of Reason, the Enlightenment and all advances in human rights can be linked to Martin Luther and his 95 theses.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Because I admire Luther and his courageous acts against a Church that could have burned him at the stake, I have had a skeptical view of spiritual rituals.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My concern is similar to Luther\u2019s.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Jesus often pointed out the hypocrisy of those who pride themselves on regularly practicing rituals of praying, giving, or attending church, but who forget the purpose and meaning of those actions.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Religious hypocrites of Jesus\u2019 day piously prayed in public, but their words were repetitious and designed to puff up the person.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Such people ritually gave to, and sacrificed for the Temple, but it was only for display.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They\u2019d forgotten that the intent of rituals is to symbolize ethics of forgiveness, kindness and devotion.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As Jesus is alleged to have said, such hypocrites are like whitewashed tombs that appear from the outside to be clean and beautiful, but who are actually filthy, dark and full of cobwebs on the inside.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> That\u2019s the danger of spiritual rituals for me, and it\u2019s why I still am cautious when using them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If they are practiced or recited regularly, and always in the same way, they are in danger of becoming something done by rote memory and <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>not<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> with heartfelt purpose.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They start to be practiced only to <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b><i>seem<\/i><\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> spiritual and not with the mindset to think about what one is doing &#8211; and why. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If and when that happens, the ritual becomes meaningless and mindless.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Sadly, that is often how I practice some of our rituals.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I can appear to be like a whitewashed tomb but am instead unthinking and neglectful on the inside.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I\u2019d rather do nothing than falsely appear to be spiritual.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As a minister, I worry about leading any of you fall into that trap.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> But that does not mean I consider rituals to be bad.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed, I think what we and other Unitarian Universalists ritually practice is good.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But like anything that is helpful, rituals can also be taken for granted, or they can become so repetitious that they become meaningless.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They can become empty of their symbolic power.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> What is key for me is to not forget the reasons behind our rituals. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>From the dawn of history, rituals have been an integral part of human behavior.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>While some religions believe they have mystical power to influence the future, we don\u2019t think that way.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But like all people, rituals have their place in our lives.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They implicitly tell a story that what we believe is important.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are markers for major life events &#8211; ones like a child dedication, a graduation, a marriage, or a funeral.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They also help guide our spirituality by reminding us every Sunday of values like tolerance, compassion, social justice, humility, and many others.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Rituals are so important in our lives that, as my title of this month\u2019s message series says, <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b><i>they define us<\/i><\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> But they are useful to us only as long as we diligently remember their meaning.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>None of us want to be compared to the hypocrites of Jesus\u2019 day who, for instance, prayed but did not believe in prayer&#8217;s ability to show empathy.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Or, we don&#8217;t wish to be compared to the sixteenth century Church that greedily used rituals to collect large sums of money by manipulating members to feel fear and guilt.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Nor do we wish to be compared to some modern churches whose services are full of rituals, but empty of any life giving inspiration, warmth or thought.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> For any ritual practiced in our services, I hope its purpose is not only well understood, but also well remembered.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As I said in my message last week, practices we do <\/span><span class=\"s2\">routinely<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> are distinctly different from practices we do <\/span><span class=\"s2\">ritually<\/span><span class=\"s1\">.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A routine is any action done regularly but has little or no symbolic meaning.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We brush our teeth as a routine, and that\u2019s important, but it has no meaning in our lives other than promoting oral health.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>A ritual, however, is done regularly and is full of symbolic value.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We drop small colored pebbles in a bowl of water every week as a way to express a private joy or concern.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We don\u2019t think that act has magical power to influence life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It\u2019s a small act, but one that has a powerful meaning.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In our minds and hearts, we remember with gratitude the richness of life, and the challenges of illness, death or heartache.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Loved ones come to mind and we are both comforted and encouraged.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Later in our services, we have the opportunity to <\/span><span class=\"s2\">publicly<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> share a joy or sorrow.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As your programs say, I believe this is our version of shared prayer.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Someone\u2019s brief words at the microphone are not a plea to some god, nor do they have an ability to change anything.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They instead do something important for our inner selves.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We get to communally share something good and positive &#8211; or we can collectively grieve, reflect, and feel empathy.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That\u2019s a powerful practice and one that initiates greater togetherness and more compassion.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> I, however, admit to ongoing concern about that practice.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I believe in Joys and Sorrows beautiful ability to add love and celebration to our services, but I worry its purpose can be forgotten.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed, about a year ago, I experimented with us <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>not<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> practicing Joys and Sorrows every week.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I was, however, reminded by several members that those services lacked the kind of heart and soul we want to feel.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I was wrong for undertaking that experiment and I apologize for it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> But my equal hope is that we remember the purpose of the Joys and Sorrows ritual.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It&#8217;s purpose is implied in the name we give it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We might broadly interpret anything that happens in life as a joy or concern.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>But that broad understanding misses the original intent.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>What recent personal event in your life <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>sings<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> in your heart, or <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><b>weighs<\/b><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> on your mind?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>How can one state such feelings in a way that is spiritually motivated &#8211; to bring us together, to share, and also to respect time boundaries &#8211; those of fellow attenders who plan on the service ending after about an hour&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;or of our RE teachers who teach our children only for the 45 minutes they have planned?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> I say all of this because I believe the intention and meaning of Joys and Concerns has always been as an opportunity to concisely share one\u2019s innermost dreams, celebrations or laments.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That intention is in keeping with the larger values we hold dear &#8211; to support one another, to be compassionate, to foster unity, and build responsiveness to our world.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>When we remember those, when they are our only motivation in its practice, we are true to why we come here. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> As I earlier said, I too often engage in some rituals by just going through the motions.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I sing the words, or do an action without remembering their meaning and value.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My mind sadly too often gets caught up in the logistics of our services &#8211; are they running smoothly, are all the elements in the right order, is the PowerPoint correct, is my message too boring, and, yes, will the service end within five or ten minutes of an hour?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I think of all those things and forget why I\u2019m here.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>How can any sense of reflection or inspiration be felt by you if I don\u2019t feel those too?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>This other-mindedness in me is something I\u2019m working on.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I want to be present in the moment and live up to my role.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> One important ritual I confess to neglecting is our lighting of the chalice.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It\u2019s a wonderful ritual but I often fail to ponder its purpose and symbolism as it is done.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Fortunately, the lighting ritual is for Unitarian Universalists not only a defining one, it is widely open to <\/span><span class=\"s2\">multiple<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> understandings.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Its symbols are historically familiar ones &#8211; the chalice and the flame, but how we each interpret them are widely different.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Some see the chalice as representative of the so-called Holy Grail &#8211; Jesus\u2019 communion cup.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It can thus be emblematic of our Christian roots.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Others see the chalice as representing ancient pagan cups used to ritually drink wine and joyfully celebrate life\u2019s abundance.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Others interpret the chalice as symbolic of communal unity and togetherness &#8211; that we symbolically drink from the same cup of wisdom every Sunday.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> Lighting a flame within the chalice speaks to universal concepts of purity and goodness.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Fire is an eternal force that\u2019s existed since the beginning of time.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Hindus, Jews, Muslims and Christians all see it as a powerful emblem of their faith.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For us as UU\u2019s, the flame can represent any of those spiritual traditions &#8211; or newer ones like Humanist and Atheist appeals to rational thinking. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> What\u2019s important is that the comfort and tradition of regularly lighting the chalice should also lead us to reflect on what that means.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I love the fact that we usually have a child light it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That speaks to our commitment to children and their own discovery of what is true and good.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As someone who appreciates rationality, the flame for me is symbolic of refining fact from superstition.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Fire burns away anything false and is therefore a truth agent.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>More than ever, I want to be reminded of that imperative &#8211; that Unitarian Universalism stands for objective truth, that we commit ourselves to its pursuit, and that we reject rigid dogma precisely to keep our minds open for new or different insights.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>(Rick Duncan&#8217;s chalice).<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> The national UUA organization expressly states that there is not an<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>official way to interpret the flaming chalice or its ritual lighting.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That statement is, in itself, emblematic of our denomination.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We purposefully do not practice rituals that are identified with other religions, we do not endorse any creeds, and we are gladly welcoming to people of all spiritual beliefs, or <\/span><span class=\"s2\">no<\/span><span class=\"s1\"> beliefs.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Our spirituality derives from universal principles and practices that literally any person, anywhere in the world, could and would endorse: dignity, respect, compassion, democracy, service to others.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> When we light our flame every Sunday, we each can appreciate and reflect on it in our own way.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That\u2019s an implicit freedom I hope we will remember.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We are not told what to think, but instead encouraged to think on our own. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I hope most of you will try, as much as possible, to arrive on time for this important ritual.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And then I hope both you and I will remember to truly honor the chalice lighting &#8211; and other rituals we practice &#8211;<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>by focusing on what they mean.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\"> As much as I hope I am of some assistance to you in my minister role, I ask for your help to me.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Rituals are tools we invented to prompt us to remember, reflect and honor.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Please remind me to never let them become hollow and empty.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The ones we practice here &#8211; from those done every Sunday, to ones done annually or on special occasions, they symbolically remind us of our values and they bring us together.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are full of symbolic meaning and, as a result, they define us.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(c) Doug Slagle, Minister to the Gathering at Northern Hills, All Rights Reserved &nbsp; On October 31,1517 Martin Luther, a professor of theology at the University of Wittenberg in Germany, published his ninety-five theses of criticism against the Catholic Church.\u00a0 Protestantism, literally meaning \u201cthose who protest\u201d was born. 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